Living out of a Luggage
Because my wardrobe space is limited to what can fit inside a luggage, there simply isn’t much leeway for shopping mistakes. The unwanted impulse buys instantly revealed themselves each time I packed up my belongings to move on to my next destination. I’m confronted by things that were rarely ever an issue when I had a permanent living space with a large closet.
In order to liberate myself from the cycle of buying and purging (or shipping some belongings back), I got very clear on what I like to wear, what is flattering, and what supports my lifestyle and environment. With the many new things that are constantly coming out every season, our desires can become endless if we continue to give in to this never-ending cycle. Here are some general guidelines I’ve created for myself.
When it comes to tops, I feel most comfortable in button down shirts, polo shirts, wide v-neck tanks, and fine-knit turtlenecks (all in classic or slim fit).
When it comes to bottoms, I opt for 4” chino shorts and lightweight wool trousers (in straight leg or bootcut).
When it comes to accessories, I lean into chunky earrings, classic watches, and belts (all with gold hardware) to help create my signature look.
When it comes to footwear, I’ve committed to wearing barefoot (aka minimal) shoes, which has greatly limited my options. Although specialty barefoot shoe companies have put out more stylish designs, they still look a bit odd. For this reason, I’ve stuck with simple black “barefoot” loafers and ballet flats. The less noticeable they are, the better.
When it comes to colors, black has always been my go-to until I discovered through color analysis that navy, dark brown, and charcoal work much better against my complexion.
Since I stick to warm weather in my travels, coats and jackets are not necessary. My layering pieces of choice are cashmere crewneck sweaters and cardigans (classic fit).
I would describe my style as elevated classic or classic with a contemporary twist, which is never the most eye-catching, but I know I’ll always look put together and can dress to the occasion. Most importantly, the pieces are timeless and can be worn for many seasons without looking dated.
By the same token, it’s just as important to identify the things I don’t particularly gravitate towards so that I am less distracted and overwhelmed by the endless options. In other words, I can let them become a bit more invisible.
Due to my body shape, boxy cuts and oversized clothing make me appear larger than I actually am. For similar reasons, I steer clear of overly stiff and super flowy materials.
Since I don’t feel the same kind of magnetic pull towards handbags and sunglasses, I keep them extra minimal and basic.
I’ve eliminated necklaces, rings (other than my wedding band, bracelets (other than watches), hats and hair accessories, scarves, so I’m never tempted by them when I’m out shopping.
Getting crystal clear on my preferences has helped me build my wardrobe with more assurance. Becoming more selective has helped me refine my shopping habits and prevent shopping mistakes from happening. Here are some questions you can ask yourself when creating your own guidelines for your impeccably refined wardrobe:
Your image is made up of your personality, attitude, behavior, hobbies, interests, education, and personal values. Does your wardrobe reflect who you are? Clearly define your style.
What colors do you feel comfortable wearing? Do they feel most true to your personal style? Do they make you look and feel good? Create a general wardrobe color palette.
What are some clothing silhouettes that create a visual balance for your body shape? Take time to understand the guidelines for choosing the types of clothes that will accentuate your good features and minimize the less than perfect areas.
How do you like to accessorize? Do they work in harmony with your face and body shape? How can you utilize your accessories to help create your own signature look?
Does your wardrobe support your lifestyle and environment? Consider specific roles, activities, and occasions in your life. How many seasons are there?
Creating a wardrobe blueprint will provide you with structure and foundation for your wardrobe edit and any future shopping trips. When you love, appreciate, and understand your unique beauty, you become more creative and decisive. Working with an image consultant can help you find more clarity.